“There is no law against wife swapping between consenting adults,” explains criminal defense attorney Harold Finn. “There are severe laws against distributing intimate images without consent. The irony is that the people ‘exposing’ this lifestyle are the ones who will face civil lawsuits—if the participants can afford to sue.”
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